It isn’t a me problem, I have had no issues upstreaming patches to other projects which have responsive maintainers but etcd and k8s just seem to be straight up mismanaged. I read contributors.md, I make sure all the linters pass, I make sure all the tests pass, I sign off the commits with my real identity to fulfill the CLA.

Yes there is a lot of garbage out there, but for the people who are actually trying to fix issues it is impossible without an insider within the project.