I guess from the inside it feels different: I'll read 99 mind-numbingly bad comments and cut them all slack (in the sense of not replying to them at all), but these 99 instances of benevolence are invisible and count for nothing, because the 100th comment will make me fly in a rage and that's when I'll actually post something. And unload a bunch of my frustrations from the previous 99, too. The internet selects for extreme reactions.
I guess from the inside it feels different: I'll read 99 mind-numbingly bad comments and cut them all slack (in the sense of not replying to them at all), but these 99 instances of benevolence are invisible and count for nothing, because the 100th comment will make me fly in a rage and that's when I'll actually post something. And unload a bunch of my frustrations from the previous 99, too. The internet selects for extreme reactions.