It is very much a race and culture thing across Midwest. Dairy and cows have a connection to being "white Americans" all the way back to Old West and cowboys. A huge number of them are lactose intolerant (native American genes) but insist and even put family pressure on anyone who tries to move away from cheese butter milk dairy etc ..
> "we're in that part of town."
Given that lactose intolerance impacts non-caucasians much more, this reeks of racism
Lactose intolerance Prevalence by Race:
African Americans: 75-95%
Asian Americans: 70-90%
Native Americans: 70-80%
Hispanic Americans: 50-65%
Caucasians: 15-25%