I'm average looking, and I've dated and "been" with many women. I'm not even tall (I'm relatively short, in fact, shorter than some women I've been with), nor rich. I should have terrible self esteem, but I don't. That, plus being social and kind to others (and maybe a bit funny) really helps. A lot more than looks alone or money.
Posts like the OP are just incels pushing an agenda.
Yeah this kind of thing comes and goes in cycles. Computers have a multiplying effect but this isn't new. When you get to the point that you're picking up women in bars you're in the same phase of the cycle we're in now.
There is no netflix and chill without birth control. We take birth control for granted now but the dynamics are so different if casual sex leads to children. It is an insane practice for both parties without birth control and isn't a thing.
We didn't have that figured out as a society and then we got both the internet and birth control.
Don Giovanni is supposed to be a myth about a guy sleeping with a 100 women because the idea was so crazy just a few generations ago.
Silphium used to exist which is a natural chemical birth control and there are of course less reliable methods.
Not that pregnancy really stops women anyway. I think the idea of contraception makes them a little more open to promiscuity but I personally know a number of married women who have had children with other men and these dating sites are full of single mothers.