Sad indeed, take a look at BisonRelay, it is built on top of Lightning Network, no surveillance possible, no accounts, true privacy.

https://bisonrelay.org/

Some articles explaining a bit how and why:

https://blog.decred.org/2022/12/09/Trapped-in-the-Web/

https://blog.decred.org/2022/12/14/Bison-Relay-The-Sovereign...