I personally work with a woman that has 5 children and works 2 fulltime jobs. Her husband used to do all the work but he died of health issue 3 years ago. She does have her mother and sister to help her with her children. But when I talk to her about this, she understands and agrees with what I say and does it.

I'm not saying it is easy - it isn't. But when you are there, you have to do what you have to do.

I think I AM the only one who knows the solution. Because when I was in my 20s, I been there, done that.