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I’m terribly sorry for your loss. I very much appreciate your reply, and I hope you find the person you want/need in this role.

If I may be presumptuous as a stranger who’s grieved several special relationships to offer advice, please try to catch yourself if that pursuit/search feels like it’s looking for a substitute for your Dad the person. Whichever relationship like that comes next will be both familiar and unusual. It might still be worth pursuing even if it doesn’t feel right at first.



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