That just means your coworkers are anti-social... this masks the problem but the real solution is educating people so they won't be anti-social anymore and stop nitpicking about others' style.
Teaching people to “just don’t be anti-social” is not the purview of people on a team trying to get work done, nor is it even possible in many or most cases.
It's a regression to the mean argument. Tall people won't have even taller children. They'll have shorter children because the average must be maintained. So very exceptional people will have less exceptional children. Giraffes disagree.